The PTA and Me

I finally joined the PTA last week. My oldest son, Ryan, is in the first grade Gifted and Talented program and I want to be as involved in his education as possible. I love going to meetings and school events and showing my support. There's only one problem; I feel so damn out of place!

First of all, I'm probably one of the youngest members there. I always feel like the other parents look down on me because of my age and assume that I have less parenting experience. They look at me as if I should be hanging out in a bar instead of a PTA meeting. The funny thing is, I had my first child when I was eighteen. I walked across the stage pregnant. I was immature and had very little "worldly knowledge"; like how to budget, pay bills, etc. Not to mention we were practically broke. But somehow, despite all this, he survived and is not only one of the smartest in his class but also a really great kid. Most of the other parents waited to have children until they were out of college, married, and had completely stable lives. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this of course but I managed to raise an exceptional child even during times when I wasn't sure where our next meal would come from while "the more experienced parents" were worried about where to shop and what color to paint the kitchen.

Another reason I feel out of place is because I dress so differently. See the images below for explanation.

You see what I mean? Now, I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with "real mom" attire, it's just not me.

So combine the way I look and dress with my tattoos and the fact that I smell like cigarettes and it makes for some crazy looks at school functions. Sure, it bothers me at times but then I remember why I'm there in the first place; to support my son. So screw 'em!